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Social media – time for a rant!

Posted on March 4, 2010June 4, 2018 by Henry Elliss

This is going to be short and certainly not at all sweet. First up – a caveat: The following is the opinion of this blog’s author and him alone, not the company he works for. Hence why I’m posting it on my personal blog…

I know that working in social media means I should be ‘supportive’ of my peers, working together for a brighter future and all that crap – don’t rock the boat, don’t question each other, etc etc. But two things lately are REALLY starting to get my goat – to point where it makes me want to scream. One is the view that social media is just ‘online PR’ – but I’ll save that rant for another day. The thing that is getting my goat today is social media events and conferences, and the aftermath.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been to quite a few, I’ve even spoken at a couple, and generally speaking they know exactly what they are. They’re not always perfect – hell, the number of times I’ve got to an event only to find that it’s just full of other agencies, with one or two lone client-side people looking slightly scared in the corner… But generally speaking they know what’s what.

But recently, there’s been a trend for these events to turn in to TOTAL love-ins for the community – total back-slapping, group-hugging, aren’t-we-all-amazing, this-week-has-changed-my-life-ing love-athons, and it’s starting to really piss me off. I’m sure the speakers and talks going on at them are very cool – great ideas, lots of positive attitudes, etc etc. But do we really have to hear about how great they are, not just during them but for weeks on end afterwards!? It seems to be a trend that’s growing and growing, and frankly unless it stops people are going to start thinking the following about the social media ‘community’:

  • We’re all too busy navel-gazing to know what’s actually going on in the real world
  • We’re all so big-headed and arrogant that we can’t possibly be fun to work with
  • These micro-communities are so super-smart and clever that nobody else could possibly fit in.

I’m going to stop now before my rant becomes personal or too specific, but I’ve got one more thing to say before I do:

Unless you’ve found a cure for cancer at one of these events, can we get a bit of perspective please?

Thanks…

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  • 3 thoughts on “Social media – time for a rant!”

    1. Lesanto says:
      March 5, 2010 at 12:38 pm

      Henry,

      Your post has little substance.

      What is wrong with people being friendly, slapping backs and being mutually supportive? Frankly, nothing – as long as when people are out of order (or just plain wrong) you’re just as ready to say so.

      The SocMed events I have been to have had plenty of people ready to take a stand, popular or not. You’ll find I’m one of them, but not the ONLY one ready to call out the fakers.

      Sure, these events are sometimes less than perfect. Yeah, it’s also very easy for delegates to get all loved up at them – often because the vibes there are so positive. But so what?

      It seems that you’re ranting about the positive aspect of these meetings and conferences, rather than identifying the actual negative aspects of them. Which is odd.

    2. Henry Elliss says:
      March 5, 2010 at 12:52 pm

      Thanks for the reply!

      As the title suggests, my rant was just that – a rant, not a considered deconstruction or a well-thought think piece. Purely intended to let of some steam. I completely appreciate that a lot of great things come out of these events, as I think I also mentioned in the post. It’s more the week-long aftermath on Twitter that gets me…

    3. Lesanto says:
      March 5, 2010 at 1:20 pm

      Not sure what’s wrong with a given event’s comet tail. But hey, like you said, these are your views not mine!

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